I did not let the sun set in a provoked state today!

Yes we had an argument over a very trivial matter and as usual it felt like he’s blaming me for the problem. But very soon he also said “Ok let’s forget about it, it was just a misunderstanding.” A part of my brain said “That’s not an apology. So I should continue with the silent treatment till he actually understands the matter and speaks about it.” But then, since I promised myself to stay happy, I decided to ponder over the issue a bit. While doing the laundry I started to analyse the matter calmly and realised that it wasn’t a big deal after all. And even if it was, I am the one suffering the most in this ‘silent treatment’ game and it’s not worth it. So after doing the laundry, I proposed that we could make dinner together. Of course, I had the happy smile on my face and within. Guess what, he looked so relieved and excited that he suggested a dish we could prepare together and quickly went out to get the missing ingredients! Well, the day went peacefully thereafter and he even kissed me goodnight! I was able to set matters straight today by calculating the trivialness of the issue and then letting it go. I can sleep happy again 🙂

I love my husband and I want us to be happy everyday!

Friends say we are the most adorable couple. Well, maybe we are. But no marriages are perfect, are they? Every day some of us struggle to keep ourselves and our husbands happy. Yet we wives often find ourselves in tears, pain and loneliness. After trying out many ways, I think I finally found my way to stay happy in our marriage. Therefore this blog, to share my daily experience of dealing with a problem successfully, without compromising on my self-respect and dignity. If you are someone like me, I sincerely hope that some of these experiences will help you too! Stay happy and keep smiling 😊